My suggestion would be to continue to DB the way you have been. He needs to show you what he wants, not continue to manipulate you into whatever suits him best at the moment. You know your H and your sitch better than anyone, but sometimes they need a harsh reality check. You can't control him or what he does or thinks, so you need to do what is best for you.

What has worked for you to this point?

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option