Originally Posted By: fightingirish
It definately does take two, im finding that out the hard way.


Ya know fightingirish,

Just like any disease or addiction you can only do so much for someone else.
Like if my wife was an alcoholic. and with this drinking problem she killed someone in a car accident (the affair).I have taken all of the booze out of the house, I have told her I understand she has a problem, I have asked what I could do for her (no reply) I myself have gave up drinking alcohol (sex) even though I enjoyed it and it was never a problem with me just to help her.
Until she acknowledges the accident and her drinking problem and ASKS for help I can no longer help her.
I will be true to my family; I will be true to my son. But I no longer have a reason to be true to my wife. AND or those of you who say “you are still married” My marriage ended along time ago. It’s time to pull the plug on the life support that I have been trying so hard to keep. If it survives then great. If it dies the it was meant to be.


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know