I'm in agreementwith you guys. She isn't ready to hear anything from anyone. As far as my folks avoiding her, she always used to call my mom, especially after hers died. She stopped calling and mom was confused, but didn't want to stir the pot by contacting her. There is no malice here, just everyone wanting to do the right thing. Mom tried to get us all over there for dinner last weekend, but W wasn't having any part of it. My folks will be at our block party this weekend, we'll see how they interact then.
A confident answer would simply be: "I agree." And that is to us. Don't need to us all about your wife, what she did, and what she might do.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
