In this case, it sounds like she's "dreaming" of a family where nothing really changes except she has her own place and gets to do whatever she wants while you are still there with full husbandly support, friendliness, affection, etc ... One Big Happy Family. Well, that is a very unhealthy dream, 'cause it ain't gonna happen. Whatever life, whatever choices she's building on that are all truly false, because she assumes cooperation from you that will *not* be forthcoming. So the sooner you burst that kind of bubble, the better for everyone. Keep on doing what you're doing.
