Well, the way I see it, there's nothing to do or think about until he's back in town.
So just relax and enjoy yourself.
And your priest speaking at that particular person's wake....that is HUGE and I would have contacted him too. So no worries.

M-34/H-35/S-4
Bomb-11-08
OW confirmed 12-08-OW ends 6-09
D finalized 4-10
Stronger=Happy