Has he been told? Yes. Has he chosen to hear or believe it? I don't think so.

It would be easier if he would just either say, "I'm not interested." or if he would do something, but paying his "relationship" with her lip service and not doing anything is just a BS Cop-out. He is the adult and I believe it is up to him to do the work, not her. The worst part for me is having to listen to him talk about how much he enjoys her and loves her, but his actions speak differently. I refuse to allow her to be left behind, shoved to the side or forgotten. Not on my watch.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option