Quote: Why not just relax and enjoy it? Why not just apply Michelle's "Just do it" to yourself?
Quite possibly I could have if I hadn't been sound asleep just before. I did not turn him down and I participated but there was no 'tingle' like he expects me to have on a moment's notice.
Quote: Just do it and keep on doing it until you both find the rhythm. Just do it, don't think.
Oh I will. I have no intention of turning him down. But is it too much to expect some sort of hint? What am I supposed to do when he comes upstairs and heads to the bathroom for an hour or so at 10pm? If I have some sort of hint, then I can make myself stay awake and get twiggy with anticipation. Otherwise, I fall alseep and it's *very* hard to relax and enjoy it when woken from such a sound sleep.
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I think Jiji gave you really sound advice on your letter and I also agree with what Honeypot said about men finding such things too wordy. I know my H absolutely hates receiving such letters from me. I think his mind shuts out after the few sentences and at the end of the day my message doesn't get across after all.
I ended up only asking if he had anything he wanted to bring up this afternoon with the C. He said no. I said nothing more. I'll wait and see what C says.
