I'm in agreement with you guys. She isn't ready to hear anything from anyone. As far as my folks avoiding her, she always used to call my mom, especially after hers died. She stopped calling and mom was confused, but didn't want to stir the pot by contacting her. There is no malice here, just everyone wanting to do the right thing. Mom tried to get us all over there for dinner last weekend, but W wasn't having any part of it. My folks will be at our block party this weekend, we'll see how they interact then.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.