Hey what's up with all these LD males, and how in the heck did I end up with one. Like I said in an earlier post, when we were younger it was him wanting it all the time, now he is like one of those potatoe bugs, when I touch him he curls up away from me, like those little bugs are likely to do. I love this man and want to grow old with him for sure, but I can't go on like this it is surely going to get worse no better. Meanwhile I have a man waiting in the background, what is wrong with getting a little on the side if you have been in a marriage 30 years and there is no hope of love making in the near future? The other man is married as well and we have no interest in any future together just to meet each others immediate needs. Why Not Cheat, where are you when I need you? Patsi