confused . should i be dark

[texasbobby]

im still living in texas,and not able to talk to my wife. we used to text just to check up ,but lately she wont even do that.my coach said to reastablish a friendship but she feels that i will bring up r talk.so should i be dark? she lives in virginia with the kids at her parents house. my children hate it there.just looking for insite. thanks