Anyway, from my experience, life does not slow down for anyone to wait for spouses to sort themselves out. It shoves you relentlessly from behind, and you gotta live it or it will live you.
I am still learning this lesson, but getting there.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim