Well, that's true. You're her mom though, so your opinion is prob. a pretty good one.
You said it came out during their IC. So D9 expressed that opinion then? That she would like to spend more time with her dad? If not, I wouldn't worry about it or interfere between them. But if she did, then that's what I would say is important. If she feels neglected, then her feelings are valid and important.
I'm trying to get my D9 to tell her dad stuff too. The kids usually always just tell me stuff, and not their dad, so I tell them you need to tell your dad that too. B/c then he winds up being kind of clueless.
