He kissed me, hugged me told me he missed me and loves me then off he goes... Even when I pull away he still comes in for the kissing... (
If you don't want him to be physical with you (and why would you, when he's being physical with her), then don't let him. You are strong. Treat it as you would if any other man tried to kiss you when you didn't want to be kissed. (Well, maybe with a slightly lesser degree of violence but you know what I mean.) He doesn't own your body; you do. Let him feel the loss of it, all of it. He's trying to eat cake, to a degree .... don't let him. IMHO.
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