I understand...

"I'm not going to say you should or shouldn't...BUT...What if you knew going out on a few dates, nothing serious, would save your M?"

I am not sure I could do it...

In my mind, serious or not it goes against my marriage vows...

It almost seems like using someone for personnal gain...

If it actually came down to that, I would have to do some serious thinking smile

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~