Ditto. Why can't everyone just get together for a nice meal or something and talk in a friendly matter about ..... nothing in particular? It's sad if they've been avoiding her because they don't know "what to say". Well, they don't have to "say" anything, as regards your relationship, nor IMHO should they. This thing is muddy enough with two people in it.


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