Kevin, your W on FB and having the OM as a friend is one of your giants. You are giving it too much attention. (I am saying that to myself for issues I am facing). Your focus should be on your Ws transformation, i.e. that she has a desire to know God. Praying that a godly woman will come into her life and help her realize that happiness is Him first and then realize the joy God has given her in a family.

Remember when God told Moses to send the twelve spies to the land of Canaan and the reports that came back from 10 of the spies said that the land was incredible but the people there were strong and would defeat them. Joshua and Caleb came back and reported that the land was wonderful and that God would help them take possession of it. Since the rest of the Israelites listened to the other ten, they were forced to wander the desert for 40 years. Only Joshua and Caleb were allowed to go into Canaan.

Kevin, what is God telling you? Are you listening? (I ask these same questions regarding my situation all the time).

While sometimes it seems like we need to be forceful and take charge of a situation, are we doing this under our own power or under God's direction.

Pray, pray and pray some more. Be cautious and vigilant that it is God talking to you.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God