I have been keeping a journal and saving all her e-mails. So I have the e-mail where she threatened to dissappear, and I have a record of my attempts to call on Sunday.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053