My 2 cents...I'd just leave it alone.

I think you're dead on. There's point where anything said just seems like a tool of manipulation to a WAS. I'm learning a lot about that myself. You could offer the cure for cancer and the WAS wouldn't want it. Wouldn't believe you anyway.

I don't see that your fam's involvement could help. But it could possibly do harm.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.