That's not to say I didn't do the right DBing things. : )
I'm a guy you're a girl...at least...that's what you say...you could be some 50 year old stock broker named Mitch from New Jersey...but...I'll take you at face value.
That being said, the boy girl thing, you'd be better off checking out some of the ladies threads...I've noticed a difference in the advice.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK