Hi Volley...

In answer to your question, the pulling back....
No demands, no contact (unless it is an emergency about the kids), no ultimatums, nothing from me except validation/unconditional love....
I let him make the contact as I continue to move 2 steps forward and sometimes 5 steps back... smile


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~