It still appears that we will be having an R talk on Sunday when my wife is back from 10 days apart (other than a short time at home last Sunday - read this thread).
Since this R talk is going to happen, I really need some ideas on the proper way to phrase things. I truly am prepared to make some serious changes (yes - for me regardless of outcome), but this will be a critical conversation, if my wife has left the door open even just a little.