My parents are very tactful. Im more afraid of W's reaction. I think even if they tried to speak to her in a loving manner, which they would, she would still think they were trying to manipulate her or something. All they want to say to her is that they love her and want what is best for everyone. They hope we stay together, but if we don't, they are ready to keep her in their lives since we have the kids, and that they will always be there for them. I wonder if anything can be said to her right now without her ruffling her own feathers.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.