Some of the philosophies/principles on the site are contradictory…do not contact WAS…yet let them see you are strong, confident & getting on with your life just fine without them. How can you do the latter without the former?
That's because in this case you are assuming you aren't being watched. You are being watched.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.