No we haven't filed, either for a divorce or legal separation. I'm of the mindset right now that I don't want the divorce so why should I file (although I have to admit, my desire to stay in the marriage has pretty much wilted). Also, in the State of Virginia, when children are involved there must be a 1 year period of separation before you can be divorced (which your probably knew already) so there is no rush to file anyway.
