My sitch...long but please indulge me

[billclay18]

No contact from W and at this point I have no desire for any. Quite honestly we have no reason to contact each other…unless she wants to proceed with D. Here's the quandary or just a general question. Several weeks ago W seemed concerned I’d be mad at her when she moves out. I told her at that time I was not mad. Even now that she’s gone, I’m not. Here’s my question…with N/C, am I confirming what she suspected…that I’m mad? That’s not the impression I want to convey because it’s simply not true. I’m actually doing quite well and will be fine either way, but how would she know that? Should I even care? Maybe I’m guilty of mind-reading…she may not care if I’m mad or how I’m doing.

Some of the philosophies/principles on the site are contradictory…do not contact WAS…yet let them see you are strong, confident & getting on with your life just fine without them. How can you do the latter without the former?