- Being out, not being home all the time esp. on weekends (but since he's gone he doesn't know this).
-Making effort to look my best (I know I let my appearance go downhill around the house) this is a good one that I kind of do for me now. And more to do!
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I LOVE your 180s. I think the weekends, even though he doesn't see them, GALing on the weekends will improve your confidence, PMA, and happiness. Then when you do see him, he sees that. Someone's thread recently was talking about how our WAS pick stuff up without being told or being there. I think we still have some kind of weird connection after being together so long.
I've suggested 180s like that about looking your best, and sometimes people are like well it's the inner beauty that counts. But when I try to look good, say makeup and nice outfit vs. sweats and no makeup; I feel more confident and better PMA when I try to look nice. So I think your 180s are perfect!
