WAW wants to get togeather?

[dday101798]

because being strait to the point they know they screwed up they know you have everyright to be pissed off but to act like it and say it at the same time can cause them or at least my W to say im too UP/DN.

there has to be a ballance point where i can be distant but not seem pissed off.. because to her pissed off means walk away more

I can't tell you how many messages I had on my phone and conversations to the same effect.

That said, there is no balance. Just cut communication all together except matters of kids (if any). Not only will you be giving her a dose of where life is headed post D, she will not be able to 'take your temp' or keep reeling you in, just to cast you back out. How many times do you want that process to repeat anyway?