I have already told her that I am not sure when I will be able to go to her new place, saying I needed to show my disapproval in some way.
Why would you say this? Do you tell her everything that you get for advice here also? "The guys/gals on the message board think I need to be more distant". There was this comment and the one about the hug yesterday that make it seem like you aren't actually upset, you are just following some script. Actually develop the backbone, don't just parrot what your IC says you should be doing. This seems really really wimpy, and that's unattractive.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
