Steady... Thanks for your support.  How is your sitch going?
I hope it is better then mine.

The moving and throwing out of stuff has been at a feverish pace.  She threw out a bunch of the kids gifts to her saying your the best mom etc.  She broke several picture frames and threw them out along with the pictures of the family She is chucking everything.  And pulling out stuff from her HS days  

I do feel done.  My W is now effecting our close friends marriage.  My buddy's wife just sat him down and gave him the I'm not in love with you speach.  It is getting quite ugly there as well as my house.  But there are no grounds for divorce in either case.  It has to be mutual seperation or nothing can happen. What a friggin mess this all is. Common thread is they are both on the same meds suffering from the same problems.

My W left my kids alone inthe house and told one story to my D as to why.  Then told another story to me as to why.  And then my buddy saw her and his wife at his house and they were goofing off on the computer and then went running. What afriggin liar.  She left our kids at home alone to go goof off with her friend.

I am so worried about my kids when they are in her care.  I wish she would just leave.  It would be best for everyone.


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Grenade 01/10/09 1st bomb 03/16/09
2nd bomb 07/22/09
1st thread Desperate for direction