So... it's come to this.

[NNP1965]

I have done my research and I am starting to think it is a darn good thing!

I really liked the L I met with yesterday, but once I started talking about things military I could see her eyes glaze over.

There is not a big military presence where I live so maybe the local L's just don't have to know about it. She did say that no matter who the spouses employer is pensions and such can be tricky. For example if my H worked for GM he might have a very complex pension structure that would have to be navigated through.

My head is spinning, ugh!