I think I am torn on what to do. Do I go ahead and tell OM's W what has been going on and what may still be going on or flaring back up again. My W is talking about going camping again next weekend and then going to a town about an hour and a half away again. Ironic the timing of these things all of a sudden again and all of a sudden he is on her FB page.

If I tell his W and she D's him, that frees him up to be with my W and that also breaks apart a second family possibly. If I don't tell her, this A possibly, probably keeps on going.

Plus if I tell his W, then my W becomes extremely angry with me again and probably hurries up and files for D. She hasn't refiled yet.

I don't know if this guy has guts or he is an idiot after I told him to break off contact with my W or I would let his W know.

I know I need to pray about this as I am just not sure what the answer is here.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...