Thanks for stopping by. I recall reading your intro a while back when I first joined. My recollection was/is that your fleeing to the comfort of friends didn't seem that far out of line. Sure, it might not have been in your best interest when it came to saving the ,marriage but I get why you did it. Seems like if H didn't get it then he was/is looking for reasons to be done.
I on the other hand went through MLC, PA and left. I was an alien during that time. Still, there is no excuse for my walking. If I had had any kind of sense to stick it out I probably wouldn't be on this forum today. But I did, and I'm here. I've learned a lot during all of this, grown emotionally, opened many doors and learned many great things about myself. I will succeed and be happy in life, no two ways about it.
So now, I keep the faith and fight to save my marriage. Today I feel happy and strong knowing that even if I don't succeed I will be OK in life. Not every day is good though and I may be struggling tomorrow, one day at a time right?
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AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
Still, there is no excuse for my walking. If I had had any kind of sense to stick it out I probably wouldn't be on this forum today. But I did, and I'm here. I've learned a lot during all of this, grown emotionally, opened many doors and learned many great things about myself. I will succeed and be happy in life, no two ways about it. 
