I'm not an expert by any means, just ask some of the people here. But it sounds like you did the right thing. I wish I had your courage. I am trying to work up to that level when I can have a similar talk with my W. Good luck, and I will pray for you and your family.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.