My W is a good mother, don't get me wrong, but a few things have started to bother me like the dinner thing. Also, she doesn't always stick to things she says to them. She'll tell them she'll play with them after dinner, and then get busy and not. Worse is bedtime. We usually put them in at 8:30. Sometimes she'll let them stay up another 15 minutes or so if they are really into a drawing or something. Fine. But then it will get stretched even though I am telling them it's time for bed. Next thing you know it's 9:00 and they are still up.
I know she has problems with stress, and the kids are a huge stress. One of the mistakes I made was not being there when she needed help with them, so not just for her but for me, I want to make sure I take care of them as best as I can.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.