As a WAW posted in another thread, W will do everything in her power to make you look so horrid and wretched to make te presence of OM seem like a right fit and be 'acceptable' to everyone.
Keep learning how to 'snake handle'.
In time as I've said, your sons will come around on their own and their cries for their father will drive W insane, I'm seeing this in my own sitch, thus no it to be true. I truly believe that now the D is done and things are what they are and our kids are upset about it, XW finally got the slap in the face from reality that I had told her would come upon her some day. Sad part is, she's done so much damage, so much re-writing history and painting me as the horrid wretch of a H, I know I for one couldn't think of a way to undo.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11