Mish--I am so glad that you went to IC. It is going to feel uncomfortable, frustrating...sometimes you'll come out feeling worse than better. But like a few others said, it is growing pains - you want to change being comfortable with beating yourself up Did you get an email for the IC? She might be more able to work with you on the payments. You should have access to her between sessions, anyway, whether to drop an email or leave a message (I do both as needed).
Any word from school about how to address the homework issue? As a parent, you can call a PPT and they have to hold one within a certain number of days (a good book is called Navigating the Special Education Maze, or something like that). You really have to advocate for him. When my kids needed speech, I was told to my face that the school "had to provide services, not the best services." It was up to me to push for what they needed.
Marc sounds like he had the flu...we just had training on it yesterday. Do you have Tamiflu for your mom?