he was back, i think

[mdoodles]

she doesnt say it to me...i think she is starting to say it to the family member because the family member is telling her how it is, isnt sugar coating what h did and is not just accepting it like mil and fil seem to do.

she is getting angry because the holidays are coming up and the rest of the family refuses to come to her house if psycho is there (not that he would show up for the holiday anyway)... i think my in laws are twisted in that they may have wanted us to be together, may not like the girl, but think it is ok to see her this whole time because its their son.

they enable him!

so now when someone close to her tells her like it is, tells her they dont agree with situation and like me too much to be around the girl, she doesnt get it.

so she is trying to spin me in a bad light, which is so unsual for her that she is being called out on it!

it is so nice to see and hear his extended family standing up for me when im not even around, when they dont need to. they are nice, good people.

and i will continue to go to their kids' birthday parties and holidays that they invite me to.

its amazing - they like me and trust me enough to tell me what is being said to protect me. the cousin told me she just wanted me to know what was being said so that i limit my conversations with mil so that nothing i say can be somehow used against me.