See I knew we were meant to be mates, we must have been sisters in another life.. another tomboy here too.. but actually having started taking care of myself a bit more Im starting to enjoy it. H used to moan my night cream stunk, now I slap it on thinking tough Im looking after myself.. My hair is thick and curly and if I let it get too thick I resemble a demented wombat lol. So I have grown it a bit longer and no matter what I use the hair dryer to smooth it out or make it curl properly so it looks nice, dead handy the curls when it needs recolouring as you cant see the tide mark. If your hair is already in a good bob shape maybe get some more layers put in and get flicky bits at the side/front and bottom, that is great for sassy looking, always make sure you look good when you leave the front door you never know who knows who that might report back to H that they saw you "looking good" Also a tip I got from one of the posts was from the flylady website and she said the first thing to do was to get up and make yourself look, as when you feel good it helps combat the down feelings, and when you answer the phone/email/door looking good it will project your feel good attitude to whomever you are connecting with (ooops sorry gone all american) lol Will catch up later have a good day x
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Great validation! Colour ... mmm, probably stay as I am. Have experimented over the years and this is about me. It matches my eyebrows too, so that's a bonus!
When does your friend arrive ((JCJ))??
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
I think that as a matter of pure self respect that we should look after ourselves. It's our given right and almost expected by the opposite sex!
I think that flylady is quite right - I have seen her website and I thought it quite a hoot! It does make you feel better to get up and get dressed. I know that when I was staying with my sister I almost felt 'forced' to do so, even though she was quite OK with me holing up in my room for a few days at a time! On the days that I did conform, I felt much better. Once you are up and dressed, you are more likely to go out looking for things to do.
So, on that note, as I am still dressed, I am bidding you all a good night as I have had a last minute invite to a cuppa with a neighbour! Not turning that down so I will check in on you all tomorrow.
For those in the UK, have a great day; those in the US and anywhere else - I guess the same; and those in Australia with me, onya mates,!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
how exciting. I love the bed head look. Layers are always sassy. What about colour?