OK JCJ - I'm resolved to sticking it out with my silence ... I've got nothing to lose. He has to contact me sooner or later, I guess! Yes, I hadn't considered that he must be thinking about me to let me know about his email addresses ... quite right Small fries, but fries none the less!!
I have paid more than half the bills in August and what I can afford now for September. That wipes me out. I plan to keep the tax refund quiet as I really HAVE to have a safety net. If he does pull back on his financial support, at least I could use the money to hot foot to the UK as a LAST RESORT.
If I can secure a job in the meanwhile, I would go back to paying 50-50 as we always have. I'm not trying to screw him over but I resent that he is keeping me on a shoe string whilst he is using his excesses to have a holiday with ow and fly interstate to meet up with her. Not quite equitable in my book.
Last edited by Eskimo Nell; 09/03/0910:00 AM.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
Small fries, but fries none the less!! 
