K.. ok, so its Athens for 2 days, then ferry to Paros (or Tinos??) for a few days, onto Naxos as a base, day trips to Antiparos, Delos (and Mykonos, or not so good there??), Santorini for a few days and lastly..relax on Koufinissi (need to find accomodation there!) and back to Athens before flying home. Cant wait grin

Hey T.. do you still have a thread? Thanks for your post and the reminder "what you focus on expands".. its so wierd, its like it all never happened now, except I am altered and so the changes are real, I could never go back to the person I used to be. He said to me last night, we will never go back to how it used to be.

Hey Rob, you are right, he says himself alot, its his job to reassure me! And I wish he would go back to C...

Hey kat.. I would like to do a reading with Priya! I will look at your thread..

GAG.. I am so glad that my post helped and thanks for yours! My bf was emotionally abandoned too.. his Mum was depressed for 10 years until she started an A with his Dads BMF when he was 8 and his Dad then went into a silent depression for the rest of his life really (the A was not confronted, his Dad would just leave the house when the OM came round to visit his W!!!!). He was taught by his repressed, loveless parents to suppress emotions. I agree when you say "Everyone sees him as a confident, successful, outgoing, gregarious guy who would do anything for his friends. My sister and I never guessed the sad, shamed 'boy' that was inside him." - I didnt at first, but something dramatic happened at the 6 year mark which made me see his shame with clarity and that was as a result of MY EA.. so we have really been on a journey together this past 10+ years and I do feel ernomous compassion for him. And his Mum has a lot to answer for !!