Thanks Stuck ... you know that I am desperately hanging out but seems like the only person I am hurting right now is me. When is this going to end?? Dark Day 8 and nothing ....

Been to the tax accountant and feel good about my refund! Now considering the outcome of that:

1) Do I tell H and declare everything - which I know will really be a bad move as he will make me pay 1/2 the outgoings next month and the month after until all my money is gone

2) Do I go buy myself a new laptop, which would really make ME feel better but I wouldn't be able to import all my stuff from my PC as I don't know how to do it!! Also need to get car serviced.

3) Tuck my money away for a 'rainy day'?

4) Go back to the UK and get the ball rolling on D'ing H ... regardless of how 'disadvantaged' he is due to my actions. (Evidently, don't really want to do this but it may give him the shock of his life - it would be a BIG LRT).

Mmm, as always, I have spent this refund 1000 times over!!

Last edited by Eskimo Nell; 09/03/09 08:38 AM.

WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09