he was back, i think

[bluerain]

Hi doodles. I think that I have recently arrived at a very similar place. It feels good.

When your MIL says things like that do you try to defend yourself? I might just say something like well, if his dad would ever try to see him, I would be the only one paying attention to him.

Are your inlaws still married? It made me so angry when my MIL would try to talk about my sitch as though she had ANY idea of what I was going through, or would go through. "Oh, youll be ok, you just need to move on, you just need to do this or that." Really, when was the last time your H replaced you? When was the last time that he tried to put YOU out on the street with nothing? Oh, thats never happened? Then keep it to yourself!

I would disregard most of what she says. Or if she does make comments like that maybe you can suggest that she step it up, since her useless spawn doesnt seem to be willing to...