Thanks. I'll take all the help I can get. It's strange how I feel like we are making progress even though there has not been any discussion about R. Just that sense I have picked up from DB'ing.
I don't find this at all odd. We've made tons of progress over in my sitch with not one peep about the R.
Slow and steady - you know the drill.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137