Doesn't OW live far away? When does he actually see her (other than web chatting)?
What does she think of you spending so much time there? You know you're not a little bit of a threat, don't you? I would hope you don't discount your presence!
Actually, I'm dead sure that I'm one huge mofo of a threat as far as she's concerned. I can't imagine that she doesn't know I'm here - why else would the contact pattern suddenly have changed?
Originally Posted By: mindfull
I read back to Page 1, and come up with... So, H cheated on you w/one of your best friends. You walk-away, and end up filing for D. In the meantime, you find yourself an OM, and eventually break it off w/him. You have then decided you want to reconcile w/H, but not H has a new OW#2 (current), and he's not willing to break it off w/her. However, you are increasingly ever present at H's and kidlets home, until you, you know, get your own pad (coughcough).
Yep, that's the short version, except OM was present as an EA before I left. I was going to break it off with OM when I found out about OW - so then I didn't.
Originally Posted By: mindfull
PS - Maybe you should adorn yourself in only bells the next time he walks through the door for dinner!
Oooh! Now this I like.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
