Doesn't OW live far away? When does he actually see her (other than web chatting)?
What does she think of you spending so much time there? You know you're not a little bit of a threat, don't you? I would hope you don't discount your presence!
And, your son... don't forget the glue that binds you.
I can't tell ya what to do with that anger. But, help me understand... I read back to Page 1, and come up with... So, H cheated on you w/one of your best friends. You walk-away, and end up filing for D. In the meantime, you find yourself an OM, and eventually break it off w/him. You have then decided you want to reconcile w/H, but not H has a new OW#2 (current), and he's not willing to break it off w/her. However, you are increasingly ever present at H's and kidlets home, until you, you know, get your own pad (coughcough).
Wow. OW doesn't know the power of DIA! Or, she'd be a constant visual and emotional presence!
She, my dear, is what I call, a dumbas$!
Get rid of the anger... you're making remarkable progress. He'll get it, as he's beginning to already!
PS - Maybe you should adorn yourself in only bells the next time he walks through the door for dinner!
Last edited by mindfull; 09/03/0902:50 AM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
