Glad you found this site. There are no promises. Only people here to help you cope. Help support you. You will read by my thread, after 15 years of marriage, my wife came home one day and said she is done. Four months later she is still done. We are living like roommates. Have 3 sons. Everyday sucks. But somehow you find the strength to carry onto the next day. I have good days and bad. Last two days have been good. The weekend was horrible. The first few months of this are pure torture.
Somehow you find a way to start to carry on day after day. It will get a bit easier as time goes on. This is something they have to figure out for themselves. I have made every mistake you can make in dealing with my situation. I still do. But the people on this site are always supportive. You will find many that coach you, there situations didn't work out. You might be saying what they did didn't work. I question them all the time.
But when the day is done, that isn't the end result you are going for. It is getting your soul through this pain. The pain that is there 24/7. The pain that makes you cry at the oddest times, the pain that wont let you eat, the pain that won't let you sleep.
Hang in there. You never know. Listen, Read, Read and Learn....
Trust me, this is coming from someone who hopes nothing more than for his wife to love him again..We all have hope here.
Remarried 6 mo S 12 S 13 S 16 SD 12 SD 16 SD 17 SS 19
