stuck808 -
that's why I finally contacted a lawyer. I'm still going to try to DB and DR and all that, but I have to talk to the kids, and if it takes a court order to do so, so be it.

We'll see how the initial consultation goes.

Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053