Male friend agrees with H that if we aren't together working on our marriage, that will be the end of it. He will move on. Want to be with him, but can't be until I know he wants me for the right reasons, not just guilt and because I make life easy for him. Can anyone advise? I like to think if he really loves me, he'll want to be with me in a few months even after not seeing me, but friend thinks no and H thinks no.