(((JCJ))) - thanks for that. It's kind of what I have been working on and the fact that H ignored my July birthday has kind of already set me up for the disappointment that I know I stand to face on 11th, so in a way, I'm ready for it.
I just think that it will be incredibly sad, whatever ... as the years have gone on, you remember your Special Day but it's never the same as the actual event. However, H has always been here and we look at our piccies and often relive bits of the day ... look back at the guests and say "he's dead now" or "they are D" - never thought that we would be adding to that list. Such is life, I guess. But hey, we are not there yet so why am I even saying that - PMA right??!!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"