I think Dday and I get the emotional needs part of the equation, it's the physical appearance aspect of the OM that we were ranting about. Speaking re: my sitch, my W must have beer goggles an inch think to think her OM is hot stuff. Not that it really matters that much anyway- I'd be just as hurt if OM was handsome- it's just that it adds another dimension to my W's WAW craziness.
Oh, and I do plead guilty to being judgmental in my last post. I'm trying to get away from that for sure, but Dday got me riled and I just had to make an exception talking about skankster OM. Thanks Dday!
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
